About

Ever realize that you’re not happy with your life and feel like you have no control of it? Ya…me too.

My husband and I have been trying to start a family for the last 8 years. If it was going well then I wouldn’t be starting this blog. At this point in my journey I’m realizing that I need to stop waiting to be happy. The purpose of this blog is to help me focus on what really matters and not some future goal that might never happen.

Let’s be real. Let’s cry. Let’s laugh.

A little about me. I’ve been married for 10 years and have a pup named Xion. my birthday is on valentines day and my husband calls it Birthentines day. My favorite place in the world is camping in Montana. My husband and I are self employed in the finance industry. In my spare time I do triathlons (mainly because I want to be proud of my body).

update since writing the ‘about’ page in 2021 a few things have changed. Late 2022 we decided to do a round of IVF starting in 2023. We scheduled everything, did all of the initial appointments and started the process. We were lucky and our first transfer took. We are now expecting a little baby girl in January 2024.

I know that this can be difficult for some people who are still in the midst of their fight. Because of that I’ve separated my page into two different parts; Infertility Blog and Pregnancy Journey after infertility.

Struggling with infertility will always be part of my journey and I want to honor that and continue to provide guidance and resources for those going through it currently. However, pregnancy after infertility is also part of my journey now and I also want to share that.

I hope you find something in this blog that helps you in your journey!